This is an excerpt from my soon to be released eBook: "Dynamic Dating"
The last hurdle we want to address is what I like to call “Stinking Thinking.” Are you the type of man who resents other men for their success with women. Do you resent beautiful women for rejecting you in the past? Do you resent all women in general for making your life miserable? Do you resent rich people who drive fancy cars and live in mansions? Do you see money as the root of all evil or subscribe to the idea that “Money does not create happiness?” If you answered yes to any of these questions then you have a serious case of Stinking Thinking. When you associate men who are attractive, rich and confident with feelings of resentment you are telling the universe that you do not want to be a person like this. This is a very dangerous declaration because when you do this, you are basically guaranteeing yourself a life of loneliness, scarcity and fear. If you resent women, they will smell it and you will find yourself alone. We have some simple coaching for you. If you are one of these guys, then STOP IT! This Stinking Thinking will undermine your success, so the next time you catch yourself thinking this way, thank your mind for sharing and start thinking powerfully.
Wednesday, January 7, 2009
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4 comments:
IMO, it helps to like people in general, not just women, to be successful in dating and relationships.
When we let down our defenses against rejection (past ones included) because we are strong inside (read: inner confidence), then pick that up too.
You become a normal who does cool things and picks up hot chicks - not a bad combination!
-Walter
Great post Robbo. I agree if your attitude stinks people sense it and no one wants to be around you. Then being resentful is another way of destroying relationships with people, women and destroying your sense of self.
A negative mindset and persona pushes positive people away.
Great post Robbo.
TC
I'm disappointed because I realise I
do this, i resent people who are better than me. I will give this up.
cuddles,
C-rebral Assassin
And it's also super easy - if you can do it at all. If you can't change your thinking around in a day or a week, or if you need "inner confidence" explained to you, sorry, but you are going to live a life of loneliness and scarcity.
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